If you have truly ever wondered why, and paused for a moment to ask yourself this, then here’s my perspective about your query. If there has been a time, when you have actually believed it, felt it, known it, and also doubted, “Am I in love?”, then welcome to the club, you’re a fellow homo sapien now.

How utterly ecstatic and painfully shaken it can leave you, for it is quite generally agreed upon to be the strongest of all human emotions. It is one thing which connects us all, and keeps the perfectly balanced cycle of evolution move naturally. What the Higher Power above has for us is store is just ‘love’, and that is all that we get blessed with in the long run, hence it is but natural for the creations of the Creator to reflect some similarities, love being one of the special ones.

There comes a time in everybody’s life, where they feel they’ve been shot by Cupid’s arrow, even though they might have tried to escape it all along. Once it happens, it flows quite naturally for some, whereas it blossoms over time for some. It also happens that some may feel that the story is incomplete, but then the question to be asked is, are we fully prepared to finish it beautifully now? At times, it feels like a million, gazillion, tridecazillion sharp and pointed needles are piercing through you and your dear little heart at the same time, making you almost sense it bleed beneath your strong facade. Those are however a few testing times, which only the mighty ones survive, and gather themselves from the dust, crawl through the shadows and shine bright. For those who cleverly mask all the pain beneath that beautiful smile, and deceptively but successfully appear to be pleasantly happy all the time, are mostly the ones who hearts hurt at the gnaws of grief.

Appearances again, like most things in our commercialised corporate world, can be very deceptive. It may also be, that some people are ‘truly’ and actually in love which brings us to the point now. These are the ones, who truly reflect the aura of the other, who are bound together by ties none less than fanciful destiny, who believe in the other, and see beyond each other’s flaws and accept the happiness of each other’s heart. They are genuinely happy, and can be often spotted glowing gracefully, blessed by the lovely warmth and love of the other’s spotless sunshine. And if the belief of being in ‘love’ is reflected in the other’s heart with almost an equivalent and balanced proportion, well then, it seems that they do not need any conclusions from anyone, not even me.

When you make a promise within the depths of your warm heart, to consciously keep the needs of the other one ahead of yours, and be genuinely happy for the other, even if the other’s actions are solely independent, it is then, that you discover the joy of giving, the serenity of letting go and the pure glee of the novel change with which Lady Luck awaits.